What’s in it for ME? A parent’s guide to summer adventure.
We talk a lot around here about the benefits of summer travel for teens. We think there is a lot to be gained for adults in the deal as well. Read on, dear Mr. and Ms. Lonely Left-Behind…
Peace of Mind:
We’re all concerned about our teenagers’ safety and well-being. Adventure camps are not only designed for thrilling experiences but also prioritize safety. With trained professionals overseeing activities, you can have peace of mind knowing that your teen is in capable hands, allowing you to relax and recharge during their absence. As a child of the 80s, this is a good bit more structured and- ahem- safe, than what I was up to during my unsupervised summer days!
Strengthening the Parent-Teen Bond:
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, finding quality time with your teenager can be a challenge. You might think, “I already see them so little, how can I send them away for a week or more?”
In the book, Think Like a Monk, Jay Shetty reminds us that “its the quality of time that we spend with kids that matters, not the quantity.”
Sending them off to an adventure camp creates an opportunity for meaningful conversations before and after their journey. Sharing their excitement and hearing about their adventures becomes a bonding experience, strengthening your relationship.
You won’t need a reminder to put down your phone as they are telling their tales of sleeping in the canyons, or paddling down a mountain river.
Fostering Independence and Responsibility:
As your teenager learns to navigate the challenges of the great outdoors, they are simultaneously cultivating independence and a sense of responsibility. The newfound skills and confidence they gain during their time away will reflect positively on their behavior at home, alleviating some of the parenting pressures.
Some even come home and suddenly know where the dishwasher is!
Rejuvenating the Family Dynamic:
A little distance can make the heart grow fonder. When your teenager returns from an adventure camp, the joyous reunion often leads to a rejuvenated family dynamic. The shared stories, newfound skills, and personal growth contribute to a positive atmosphere at home, creating a ripple effect that benefits the entire family.
Encouraging Personal Growth:
Snowplow parenting is real y’all.
We want our kids to be resilient, clever, gritty, successful adults. We also want to protect them and keep them safe. Parenting in today’s world is mixed bag, to be sure!
Just as your teen is undergoing personal growth, so are you as a parent. Allowing them the space to explore and discover themselves fosters a sense of trust and mutual respect.
As you witness their achievements, you'll find yourself growing alongside them, gaining confidence in your parenting abilities.
A Well-Deserved Parental Break:
Parenting is a 24/7 job, and sometimes, a break is exactly what's needed. Sending your teen to an adventure camp gives you a well-deserved opportunity to focus on self-care, pursue personal interests, or spend quality time with your partner. It's a chance to recharge your batteries and return to parenting with renewed energy.
Creating Lasting Memories for the Entire Family:
The adventures your teen experiences at camp don't stay confined to their memories alone. The stories, photos, and newfound perspectives they bring back become shared family treasures. These shared memories contribute to a rich family narrative, creating a lasting legacy that you'll all cherish for years to come.